Looking towards 2019

It's time for all the 'new year new me' rubbish.
Time for people to start making new years resolutions: ! lose weight ! quit smoking ! join a gym !
And then of course they break them instantly because let's face it, the road to hell is paved with good intentions.


The truth is that there is no magic that happens at midnight on the 31st. You won't be debt-free, skinny, or suddenly happy just because the year changed. The fact is that if you truly wanted to change, you'd be doing it already. If you are looking for a cure for happiness; be that cure. Happiness comes from within, after all. Work on your flaws and reward your strengths. Your life is not going to change just because it's a new year or because you just hope it does. It does require opportunity, but also leaving your comfort zone and taking a risk.


So as we go into 2019, take a hard look at the positive moments of 2018. Maybe it's not been a banner year, but look at the small stuff that got you through it: friends, family, petting animals, a message from a stranger, a trip out. Remember life's made up of little things, and make 2019 a time to celebrate the small victories. Set smaller goals, remind yourself what you're fighting for and, whilst staying accountable, be kind to yourself when you inevitably mess up; we're only human after all.